How to use an affair as a portal to greater love, trust and growth
This week’s show is with Dagmar Khan. She is a world’s leading Women’s Empowerment and Trauma Alchemist. She helps women to break free from the handcuffs of broken-heartedness, social repression or trauma and reclaim their personal power, sexuality and financial abundance. With her focus on mind-body wellness and women’s sexual empowerment, she invites women to increase their confidence thermostat and capacity to lead with radiant power, trusting in their worth and divine work in the world.
In this episode, we explored the incredibly juicy topic of using an affair as a portal to more love, personal growth, creating a shared vision for the relationship, and healing past trauma. Yes, really!
Also, as well as being an incredibly helpful and healing episode for anyone who has experienced infidelity in their relationship, this is such a rich episode that it has truths for any human navigating intimate relationships. I can honestly recommend this to all of our listeners.
I’d love to know what YOU think about this week’s show. Let’s carry on the conversation… please leave a comment below.
What you’ll learn from this episode:
Affairs typically happen with a context, they’re not just random or about one party’s behaviour in isolation. Being able to look at your own part in creating that context is so powerful. Creating safety in your body first is a must. The nervous system needs to be settled in order for us to choose into enquiry about our own behaviours.
Create a shared vision for the relationship – how you want to feel, what you’d like to do, etc. This is incredible practice anyway but is rare – an affair provides an opportunity to enter into this kind of conscious conversation.
Trauma lives in the body – we need to allow ourselves to experience it and move through it in order to be healed and whole again.
An affair shines a light on who we are and the wounds that have created the relationship context – we can choose into working with those wounds or to walk away with those wounds still present and affecting our lives.
Remember that the core of your heart is untouched and unbroken – you can come through great pain and be OK.
Resources and stuff that we spoke about:
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Lian & Jonathan